The Cave

I like this guy, Jack (Cole Hauser). 1st from left.








Look at his eyes, abit scary. He bit by the monster and parasit goes in his body.






This is Jack. hehe ^^

I wanna fall in love with a better man

〝 I wanna fall in love with a better man. 〞
變美一點、再瘦一點、眼睛大一點，
也許並不一定就會幸福，
但是我想我開始知道，
人要多愛自己一點。

心碎過後，
我們漸漸明白，
愛、幸福與自我常是不能共存的，
只有幸運的人才能擁有全部。

此刻我只希望有一個真正的肩膀，
讓我可以真實的依靠。

神啊，讓我向你許一個心願：在世界末日之前，請讓我們相戀！

People in love

Love can change a people, no matter in characteristics or outlook!!! From a nice & pretty gal can be a seafood - Lala!! Not totally change to become Lala, just 'on-the-way'. The way she talk, act, dressing, know birds' language, etc.

Man!! Why she will become like this? Because the "Beng's bf"? We are thinking, the guy is such a samseng (he is along, collect illegal 'wan zi', etc). His hands got tattoos, those dragons... I just can't imagine why she will fell in love with him. Last time she always claim that people like her bf is Beng and will never fall in Love with them, cuz see them also 'geli'.

Before they get together, the guy used to treat her very good. Buy her lunch, ice-cream... then she break-up with her ex, then be with this Beng. Guess what, now the guy often scold her, she cry, and find her friends to get comfort. Friends ask her to break-up with him, she doesn't want. Yes the guy is quite rich. We guess she stay with the guy because $$ ?

Conclusion: Don't always say people ugly, fat, etc... You will get the person as your bf/gf or your children.
Don't say LOVE is blind, cuz you are not blind. If you always want get something from your lover, and he/she cannot fulfil you, and you are arguing... that's mean love is not blind. So, open your eyes when you are in Love.
Appreciate what you have now!!! Don't let people that love you get hurts!!! =]

Mickey Hugs

yeAh, Mickey is shining!!

Hug, hug!!

baby-sitter

hmm... monday n today, at my sis' house to be a baby sitter.. man.. tiring... the baby is hyper-active.. make me mad... monday nite... pasar malam time.. wow.. many ppl.. every1 like very sticky... yer... watch The sisters.. wat a stupid movie.. don understand some more it's in malay subtitle.. :<

BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committedsuicide.Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

**so be patient ya.. ^^

Masterpiece

BowL-ing

ThursdaY is just nice... today is benny's birthday!! so we went to McD to celebrate with him and also celebrate for elynn cuz her birthday is the next day! take photo as usual... especially can take with sook kuan ~ tai kah jie...

after that... go for bowling... hahaha... haih... so teruk... got a teruk marks... cuz not always play ma! muahaha... as long as v r happy la...

at night go to summit with parents n sis... n my lovely damian, which donno how to pronounce YI.. onli can pronounce CAR... CAR... arGh... hehehe....

Wednesday ~ energy back...

yesterday whole day feel so sleepy... @@

at nite, my housemate - michelle.. she is so kind... lent me her dvd to me... so 'gan dong'!! actually i not dare to borrow from her cuz she not yet watch! ^^ hahhaa.....

today class also bored like ************ arGh.. but the time over very fast...... next week holiday... got 2 cases to do.. arGH... got many things to read.. aRgh... :'( somebody pls help me......!!!

PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?" Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman. "The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

The day after yesterday...

Monday nite ~ yummy... makan nite.. go to Sri kembangan to find Elynn with benny & yeemun... hehe... guess wat... of course makan la.. we go to a restaurant - gasoline to have dinner. there got a nice environment... just like japanese style restaurant but actually a chinese 1. the food a... really out of my mind. the food suppose to be hot, but is sweet.. then i ordered an ice blended sour soup.. wah.... very sweet.. i think the price of the sugar decrease!!!

then v went to a dessert house. erm.. have many types of dessert. i just have a 'mat zou' water... cuz that time don feel like eating sweet stuff anymore.

reach hostel around 1030pm. then have a little dance with room mate... cuz they want me to teach them dance!

at night... really feel sleepy.. but... donno y cant really fall in sleep.. then now.. the next day... very sleepy in the class... all lectures cannot listen to my mind... haih... all i wan is sleep........
God bless me ^^

Saturday night

Cg at hwee ching's house. yummy.. got lots of junk foods for us to eat... haih.. bad thing is our group just got 8ppl include Jia Hui & Kelly. :(

Sunday... donno y feel so sleepy when pastor preach... come back also nothing to do.. just online.. makan.. then think of wat to do at night... -_-"

RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

Hazy no more...

YAhoo..~!! hazy no more serious in klang area... so happy... the sakai claim that she doesnt have holidays... she is sad about it.. hahaha... sampat... kakaka...


my later hair style... oh.. my face jz too big... haih... boh bian la.. it's not my fault... muahaha... is too short... need to gel it... erm...







cheer up ^^

hazy hazy

wah... early morning wake up.. so sleepy.. thought was raining outside cuz quite dark... is haze actually... again.. the haze still dowan get away.. arGh....

after class go back to hostel.. wah.. when i look back to college.. really like in genting man.. :<

NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character. "It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

haZY

result was out... haih... really get wat i wan.. haha...

wow... at the morning.. college is full of haze... till classroom also hazy... wah... (cough cough... smoke came out from mouth) the noon class was cancel... plan to go makan with benny 1 cuz he cleared his paper... :) but he said actually can ask sakai to belanja... cuz she complete ABE edi... haih...


CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

Morning ~ fear

This morning, wake up, suddenly fear about 'something'... i think i need time to recover. :<

Somehow i think, those ppl that already got a gf also can go find the other gf, that's mean 2 gals in a time... really wanna kill them. please appreciate ppl that u already chose... aRgh...

NO POINTING FINGERS.
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

Red - box ^^

Sunday nite decided to go Red box to rock off... sing for 3 hours... then daughter say wanna buy a birthday present for her bf. then shop for shoes and a nice lips' gloss... hehe... pyramid still got lots of ppl that from middle east... man they are pretty! weweeT!!!

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is." Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".

Week-end

Saturday

phew... is over finally. thanks to the band that help me, especially Joshua. hey, u can actually be a song leader, sing with ur guitar like wat Satay did. Irene, next month can put his name in the roster!! ^^
nite time at angela's house... wah... man! is far far n far. andrew drive really dangerous la, turn din show signal... wuwuw... got many mosquitoes, fly here, fly there. our group so kolian la... only got 8 ppl. play with they 'er hu' doll, n look around their rooms. ^^

Sunday

very tired in the morning... force myself to wake up! after church... haha.. play with the super naughty - Damian. went dinner at banting - flies shop... argh...

Fri ~ Tea

All day long waiting for some1 to call me for yum cha. in the evening, he finally call me. v meet at sri melur.

guess wat? i got nothing. because he told me that he really donno wat happen. n i think the main prob is from his bro. cuz he said his bro wont tell them anything bout himself. so, the reason that they don wan attend church service because scare of ppl will ask about their prob and blah blah...

i don think he really donno lor.. cuz they are family... ermm... aiya...i cant force them to tell me rite...

SO, MISSION FAIL!!!

my daughter...

wah... it's hot today! doing blog stuff till geram... if nobody help me to do, i think i'll find another blog that make my life easier... hahaha...

yesterday nite quite happy, cuz my daughter had settle her things.. now she can concentrate to study... jia you!!! damn sleepy in the class .. my daughter wakes me up in the mid of the night.. ask me to see her new earing from her bf.. kacau betul...

Shopping again... but this time is for foods... hahaha... bought sushi... yummy...

^peace^

Mega Sales...

yeah yeah... mega sales right now... until when a?? hahaha... bought clothes again at JJ. ^^

feel uncomfortable this week cuz got many things to do... have to go out to meet friend, dance at church & lead songs... wuw...

saw the b206 guy.. but i think he cant recognised me or he doesnt wan to remember who am i... haha... very 'yu' a... ^@^

*peace*